Formal vs Casual Ways to Say ‘I am following up’
If you need to check on the status of something—an email, a request, a project, or a meeting—you have many options beyond the simple phrase “I am following up.” The right choice depends on who you are writing to and the situation. In formal settings, such as with a client, a senior manager, or a government office, you want to sound polite and respectful. In casual settings, such as with a close colleague or a friend, you can be more direct and relaxed. This guide gives you clear, ready-to-use phrases for both formal and casual contexts, along with examples, common mistakes, and practice exercises.
Quick Answer: Which Phrase Should You Use?
- Formal (email to a client or boss): “I am writing to follow up on…” or “I wanted to check in regarding…”
- Semi-formal (email to a colleague you know well): “Just checking in on…” or “Following up on…”
- Casual (chat or quick email to a teammate): “Any update on…?” or “Just circling back on…”
Understanding Formal vs. Casual Tone
The phrase “I am following up” is neutral, but it can feel stiff in a quick message or too vague in a formal letter. In formal English, you often use longer, more polite structures. In casual English, you use shorter, more direct language. The key is to match your tone to your relationship and the medium (email, chat, or phone).
Formal Ways to Say ‘I am following up’
Use these when you need to be respectful, especially with people you do not know well or who are in a higher position. They work best in emails and written correspondence.
- “I am writing to follow up on…” – A standard, polite opener for any formal email.
- “I wanted to check in regarding…” – Slightly softer and more considerate.
- “May I kindly follow up on…?” – Very polite, good for sensitive situations.
- “I would like to inquire about the status of…” – Formal and direct, suitable for official requests.
- “Permit me to follow up on our previous conversation about…” – Highly formal, used in legal or diplomatic contexts.
Casual Ways to Say ‘I am following up’
Use these with coworkers you are friendly with, in team chats, or in informal emails. They sound natural and not pushy.
- “Just checking in on…” – Friendly and light.
- “Any update on…?” – Short and direct, perfect for instant messages.
- “Circling back on…” – Common in modern workplaces, especially in tech and startups.
- “Quick follow-up on…” – Simple and efficient.
- “What’s the latest on…?” – Very casual, best for close colleagues.
Comparison Table: Formal vs. Casual
| Situation | Formal Phrase | Casual Phrase |
|---|---|---|
| Checking on a project deadline | “I am writing to follow up on the project timeline.” | “Any update on the deadline?” |
| Asking about a job application | “I wanted to check in regarding the status of my application.” | “Just checking in on my application.” |
| Requesting a response to a proposal | “May I kindly follow up on the proposal I sent last week?” | “Circling back on the proposal.” |
| Confirming a meeting time | “I would like to inquire about the meeting schedule.” | “What’s the latest on the meeting?” |
Natural Examples
Formal Email Example
Subject: Follow-up on Q3 Marketing Report
Dear Ms. Chen,
I am writing to follow up on the Q3 marketing report that was due last Friday. I understand you may be busy, but could you please let me know when I can expect to receive it? Thank you for your attention to this matter.
Best regards,
James
Casual Email Example
Subject: Quick check on the report
Hi Lisa,
Just checking in on the Q3 report. Any idea when you’ll have it ready? No rush, just want to plan ahead.
Thanks,
James
Casual Chat Example (Slack/Teams)
Hey Tom, any update on the design files? Let me know if you need anything from me.
Common Mistakes
- Mistake 1: Using “I am following up” in every situation. It can sound robotic. Vary your phrases based on tone.
- Mistake 2: Being too casual with a client. Saying “What’s up with the report?” to a client can seem rude. Use formal phrases instead.
- Mistake 3: Being too formal with a close colleague. Saying “I would like to inquire about the status” to a teammate you see every day sounds unnatural. Use casual phrases.
- Mistake 4: Forgetting to mention what you are following up on. Always include the specific topic. “I am following up” alone is vague.
- Mistake 5: Using “kindly” incorrectly. “Kindly” is very formal and can sound old-fashioned. Use it only in very formal emails, not in casual messages.
Better Alternatives for Specific Contexts
When you want to be polite but not pushy
- “I just wanted to gently follow up on…”
- “I hope this is not too early to follow up on…”
When you need a quick response
- “Could you please provide an update on…?” (formal)
- “Can you give me a quick update on…?” (casual)
When you are following up after a long silence
- “I am reaching out again regarding…” (formal)
- “Just wanted to touch base again on…” (casual)
Mini Practice: Choose the Right Phrase
Read each situation and choose the best phrase from the options. Answers are below.
- You are emailing a potential client about a proposal. What do you write?
a) “Hey, any update on the proposal?”
b) “I am writing to follow up on the proposal I sent on Tuesday.”
c) “What’s the latest on the proposal?” - You are messaging a coworker on Slack about a shared task.
a) “I would like to inquire about the status of the task.”
b) “Just checking in on the task. Any progress?”
c) “Permit me to follow up on the task.” - You are following up with a professor about a recommendation letter.
a) “May I kindly follow up on the recommendation letter?”
b) “Circling back on the letter.”
c) “Any update on the letter?” - You are reminding a friend about a plan for the weekend.
a) “I am writing to follow up on our weekend plan.”
b) “What’s the latest on Saturday?”
c) “I wanted to check in regarding our weekend plan.”
Answers
- b) – Formal and polite for a client.
- b) – Casual and natural for a coworker.
- a) – Very polite and respectful for a professor.
- b) – Casual and friendly for a friend.
Frequently Asked Questions
1. Is “I am following up” always correct?
Yes, it is grammatically correct and neutral. However, it can sound repetitive. Using different phrases makes your writing more natural and shows you understand tone.
2. Can I use “following up” in a casual conversation?
Yes, but it is more common in written communication. In spoken conversation, phrases like “What’s the latest?” or “Any news?” sound more natural.
3. What is the difference between “follow up” and “check in”?
“Follow up” usually means you are asking about something specific that was discussed or sent. “Check in” is more general and can be used just to see how things are going.
4. Should I always apologize when following up?
No. Only apologize if you think you are being too pushy or if a long time has passed. A simple “I hope this is not too early” is enough. Over-apologizing can weaken your message.
For more guidance on polite everyday phrases, visit our Polite Everyday Phrases section. To explore other professional email alternatives, see our Professional Email Alternatives category. If you need help with speaking at work, check out Workplace Speaking Phrases. For more comparisons like this one, go to Formal and Casual Versions. If you have questions about our content, please see our FAQ page.